You would not slip if you leave the place where there are chances of slipping.” Therefore run! You must run as far away from that person as possible. With loss of familiarity, one will completely forget sexuality." He also advises you to, “ Stay as far away from the company of those who are likely to trap you in sexuality, because if you get trapped even once, you will keep on getting into trap after trap. By not getting involved in the sexual act, one may become uneasy and unsettled for a month or two. That is called trushna (a thirst strong desire). The thirst will go away by not indulging in it. Whatever happiness one enjoys, the thirst for it will increase. “As far as sex is concerned, the more one enjoys it, the more intense a burning desire will arise. Let us see what advice and understanding Param Pujya Dadashri provides in His own words: You never know when you might agree with them. Avoid the company of people or friends that encourage sexuality, even jokingly.
When you engage in any of these activities, they cause the multiplication of sexual impulses by tenfold, making it harder to control the desires.Īvoid any eye contact with people of the opposite sex and avoid touching at all costs. In other words, you should not look at images, watch videos, or read stories that are of a sexual nature. ‘Prevention is better than cure’īy distancing yourself from the very things that cause the impulses in the first place. It requires thorough understanding, a lot of patience, internal steadiness, and most importantly, a firm commitment. However, those solutions do not last for long, because it is not possible to control sexual desires through a quick fix.
When sexual desires and impulses arise within us at a very fast pace, we look for quick solutions to get rid of them.